She found his WhatsApp number on one of the posts he made the previous day, without thinking twice, she copied it and went straight to chat with him on WhatsApp.
She didn’t know what to expect, but one thing was certain, she really wanted to have an affair with him by all means.
“This will serve his wife right. That woman that thinks she’s got the most faithful man on earth. When I am done with her, she will know there are levels to these things.” She boasted.
“Hello sir, good evening to you. This is Tricia, one of your die-hard followers on Facebook. I know this may sound awkward to you, but I am really saying it from my heart.
I love you sir, and I really want us to know each other on an intimate level. No, I don’t mean sex, I just want us to be close.” She typed and sent.
When he saw it, he smiled and quickly sent a response to her.
“Good afternoon young lady. Are you aware that I am a married man?”
“Sure, I am aware sir. That was why I told you there’s nothing like sex, Just a close intimacy, where I can bare my mind to you. ” She responded.
The chat went on for like 30 minutes. He tried to see reasons with her, but she insisted it was just a close relationship without sex.
And then, she asked him on a date. It was awkward to accept such, but he did. And she felt her plans were gradually turning into reality.
“Get him drugged just this once, get him to sleep with me under duress. And yes! His wife will have nothing to boast about again.” She smiled.
On the appointed day, she went to the eatery as early as possible – 30 minutes before their agreed time. She was putting on a very seductive dress that suggests her mission.
It wasn’t her first, in fact, she had seen the downfall of some well-meaning men. To her, this wouldn’t be an exception.
Just when the man placed a call to let her know he was around, she quickly ordered and paid for food only to look up and saw him stepping in majestically with his beloved wife.
She was all dressed up and looking like the queen she is. They both went to her table, gave her a warm greeting and sat down with her.
She was just speechless. She wanted to talk but couldn’t. All she kept muttering was, “why did you come with your wife. Must you let her in on everything?”
As if the wife heard those silent whispers, she turned to her and said,
“Beautiful lady. My hubby told me all that has been going on between both of you. How you have been pestering him for an intimate relationship despite telling you he has a wife.
He told me how you insisted on this date, and how you were almost wearing him out because of it. Well, we are here now. Feel free to talk to him and do whatever you wish.”
The lady suddenly wished the ground should just open and swallow her. She felt so ashamed of herself.
Without saying anything, she rose up and left the eatery. On her way back, she brought out her phone, searched out the man’s number and suddenly hit the block button. That was the end of the pestering.
She had already ordered variety of foods before she discovered he came in company of his wife. When the waitress started bringing them in, the couple settled down and had a feel of the delicacies before finally driving back home joking and making fun of the whole meeting.
It’s so easy here, but the truth is that faithfulness is a big deal, but the fruits thereof are unquantifiable.
Secrecy in a marriage can lead to different problems. If you’re hiding things from your partner, beware of what you’re doing and what the consequences could be. Open communication is the bedrock of any strong relationship, and while not every detail needs to be shared, maintaining a foundation of trust is paramount.
Research shows that personal or relationship insecurity can make your partner act in desperate ways. your partner may lie and hide things from you because he isn’t confident about himself or some situations. If telling the truth about some things makes him feel uncomfortable, lying will ensue, this is bad and shouldn’t be the case but in the event of this unfortunate situation you must decide to forgive and don’t bring it up again.
To build open communication in your relationship and marriage, the following must be embraced; Be emotionally available, Say how you feel, Respond in a positive manner when your partner does tell you some things, open communication takes time to build so give it time, Always confront your spouse in a civilised and respectful manner, don’t be too judgmental, learn to trust your partner and ultimately make the Bible your sure guide in your relationship and marriage.
Do not hide things from your partner. Sin and evil thrive in secrecy.
You can truly build and cultivate intimacy with your spouse. Every other source demanding this privately from you may be a trap. Your spouse should be your confidant. The one who knows all about your dealings with others. The one who in your absence can tell what you can or cannot do. Your best friend in good and bad time.
Your marriage will thrive.
Amara Chitoo Ogunoegbunam is a Relationship and Marriage Therapist | Women’s Mentor | Founder of Thrive Mentorship Academy | Phenomenal Writer.
She is a relationship and marriage therapist who helps individuals make the right relationship and marriage choices and see to it that they enjoy it to the fullest, to the glory of God.
She’s the Founder of Thrive Mentorship Academy: A platform dedicated to helping young ladies and women lead intentional and purposeful lives, thrive in their relationships and marriages, and become the best version of themselves.
Host, Relationship and Marriage Matters: A weekly online program focused on addressing crucial aspects of relationships and marriages.
Lead Trainer at Thrive Mentorship Bootcamp: A 6-week coaching and mentorship Bootcamp for women who want to build a personal brand for impact, influence, and income. She is a Phenomenal Writer who inspires her audience through her creative writing and storytelling prowess.
